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Supporting someone you love with pancreatic cancer can be heartbreaking and confusing, and it’s normal to feel unsure about what to say or do.
What matters most is that they don’t face this alone - and that you also get support for yourself.
Try to follow their lead. Some days they may want to talk openly; other days they may not. Use simple, honest language, listen more than you speak, and don’t feel you need to “fix” things - being present and willing to hear them is often enough.
Show up in small, steady ways: offer lifts to appointments, help with meals or errands, and check in regularly. If things feel heavy, we offer a counselling service in partnership with Cancer Focus (find out more below).
If there are dependent children, we can signpost you to Cancer Fund for Children for family support. And if you want help with what to say and how to say it, the Family Centred Cancer Care resources at Ulster University offer clear, child-focused guidance for these difficult conversations.
Visit the Cancer Fund for Children website Family Centred Cancer Care resources
Supporting someone through a diagnosis of pancreatic cancer can feel overwhelming, but you are not alone. Michelle Bradley, our pancreatic cancer support worker is here to help you and any family member to navigate the journey. We understand how overwhelming it is trying to juggle all the demands of everyday life including work and children all while trying to support others. At NIPANC we strive to provide you free face-to-face support at your own home or a neutral venue, at a time that suits you. Michelle can arrange a home-visit or a meet up for a coffee and provide you with information on the services provided by NIPANC including referrals to other support services or simply be a listening ear.